31 Days, 31 People Day 05: DANNY

I had an older brother.

My brother always seemed way more grown-up than he actually was. When I look back and think about him being only 15 years old, and 6’2” when he died, it kind of blows my mind how mature he was (or seemed.)

I remember my mom telling me once when I was older, how my brother used to help her with Christmas. My dad in those earlier years was not into the whole Santa thing, or was occasionally just not home on Christmas eve so my brother, as a 7 or 8-year-old kid, would wake up really early and help my mom make it look like Santa came so his two little sisters would have that whole magical experience.

My brother built my first BMX bike out of parts he had accumulated in the garage. It was a good bike. I remember the chrome Torker frame and the Redline forks. It was my first bike that didn’t have a basket on the handlebars or a banana seat. I could officially ride with him and his friends if I could keep up. I couldn’t keep up very well. I raced a bit but I was never very good at it. He was really good, I have a bunch of his trophies on my shelf here.

Danny was a musician and an artist. He could play guitar and drums but was the bass player in his band. He introduced me to every metal band I still listen to. He introduced me to a lot of music and love for music. I remember the hours he’d spend…